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Whether you go to a small church or a large one, it\u2019s hard to find community in a corporate worship service for an hour and a half every Sunday. Enter the small group. I\u2019ve had several different small group experiences over the years, and most have been positive. Sure, it can be hard to find the right group and get plugged in, but I\u2019ve found that a small group is important for my spiritual growth, and the benefits have far outweighed the challenges.<\/p>\n

Why should you join a small group? Here are four reasons to consider:<\/p>\n

1. A different perspective<\/h4>\n

<\/b>Whatever type of small group you\u2019re in, chances are it won\u2019t be all people just like you. And that\u2019s a good thing, because we learn and grow when we can discuss topics with people who challenge us or who see things in us that we don\u2019t see in ourselves.<\/p>\n

Last year my small group went through a study on spiritual gifts<\/a>. During one discussion, people affirmed the gifts they saw in each other. Often times it was a gift someone didn\u2019t necessarily see in themselves and would have missed if someone else hadn\u2019t pointed it out. I\u2019ve also been in small groups that weren\u2019t connected with a certain denomination, and I\u2019ve valued the various perspectives from members who come from different faith backgrounds.<\/p>\n

2. Community<\/h4>\n

<\/b> It seems obvious, but it\u2019s hard to have community in a church service surrounded by hundreds or thousands of people. It\u2019s easy to feel anonymous in that type of setting, but a small group by very definition takes away that problem. I wrote about community and isolation in my last post<\/a>, and a small group can be a way to find a group of people to invest in and who will do the same for you.<\/p>\n

My first small group post-college was one where no one had family close by, so we became that for each other. We helped each other move, celebrated engagements and promotions, and grieved lay-offs and health issues. They became \u201cmy people\u201d in the absence of actual family.<\/p>\n

3. Opportunity to be a giver<\/h4>\n

If you\u2019re not plugged in to some sort of ministry or service opportunity in your local church<\/a>, it\u2019s easy to feel like a church consumer. You show up every Sunday, look for what the service has to offer you, and then leave. But we\u2019re called to be givers, not just takers. As my pastor says, you become a bucket instead of a pipe when all you do is consume. And what happens to water that stays in a bucket and doesn\u2019t flow in and out? It becomes stagnant, and we can become the same way.<\/p>\n

Even if a small group doesn\u2019t plan specific outreach opportunities, there are still ways to serve. Offer to host the group, or show up early to help set up. Volunteer to bring a snack, or follow up with group members during the week if they shared a prayer request. Welcome new members, or be in charge of the weekly communication for the group.<\/p>\n

4. Accountability<\/h4>\n

Not every small group is set up for accountability, but some groups have this as a specific purpose, and it can be a huge part of spiritual discipline and maturity<\/a>. One of my friends meets with a group of men for a weekly breakfast, where the older men mentor and ask the hard questions of the younger ones. Another of my friends is in a group of only four women, and they have a structured time of sharing personal prayer requests and keeping each other updated throughout the week as they see God answer. That type of accountabilit<\/a>y can really only be fostered in a small group.<\/p>\n

While not every group will offer all of these all of the time, I\u2019ve found that God has used the various small groups I\u2019ve attended to meet specific needs during different seasons in my life. Which is why I agree with Suzanne that small groups are worth it<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Copyright 2013 Ashley Boyer Hendley. All rights reserved.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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