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I was two or three weeks into my first dating relationship when I met with another friend at a coffee shop. As I tried to tell her what I was thinking and feeling about the relationship, it became clear that I<\/em> wasn\u2019t even sure what I was thinking and feeling. I was still spinning in this new experience, grappling for signs of what I was supposed to do next. \u201cI feel like I don\u2019t have a map,\u201d I told her.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou don\u2019t need a map,\u201d she said. \u201cGod probably won\u2019t show you the whole path, but He will absolutely show you the next step.\u201d<\/p>\n

A few weeks later, the relationship that had me so mixed up ended. But it was far from the last time I would feel unsure. Adrift. \u201cMap-less.\u201d<\/p>\n

The middle of nowhere<\/h4>\n

Ever since I was a kid,<\/a> I assumed I would be married with a couple kids of my own by the time I reached the age I am now. That scenario would be comfortable \u2014 almost familiar \u2014 and something I would instinctively know how to handle.<\/p>\n

The prolonged singleness I\u2019m in now was never what I envisioned, and I\u2019m not sure I\u2019ve ever felt that I know how to handle it. I don\u2019t know where my path is going, and there isn\u2019t a map to get me to wherever-that-is.<\/p>\n

The good news is, I\u2019m not the only one to feel lost in the middle of nowhere. In Hebrews 11, we read a lot about Abraham and his obedience to God\u2019s leading. One of my favorite verses about him is this: \u201cAnd he went out, not knowing where he was going.\u201d (v. 8)<\/p>\n

Not knowing where he was going<\/em>. Ain\u2019t that the truth.<\/p>\n

Have we really surrendered?<\/h4>\n

Similarly, in 1965, a young woman named Pamela thought she knew where her life was going \u2013 or at least where she wanted it to go. She planned to get married, have children, and raise them on the British coast where she had lived her entire life.<\/p>\n

But then her sister insisted she go with her to a youth group weekend retreat. Pamela knew about Jesus, but worried what would happen to her simple, comfortable life plans if she chose to surrender to Him.<\/p>\n

Long story short, God captured Pamela\u2019s heart at that weekend retreat. She chose to surrender without knowing if her picture-perfect life dreams would ever come true. She gave the rest of her life \u2013 whatever that would look like \u2013 to Jesus.<\/p>\n

Pamela realized she no longer needed to map out her life. God had already done that. All she had to do was learn to follow Him one step at a time.<\/p>\n

Her life turned out nothing like she had imagined. God led her through her biggest fears to do missions work in Africa, help smuggle Bibles to a communist country with Brother Andrew, and assist Holocaust survivor and Christian speaker and author Corrie ten Boom during her ministry.<\/p>\n

To Pamela\u2019s surprise, she loved her life of unexpected adventure. Years later, she wrote \u201cSafer Than a Known Way<\/a>\u201d \u2014 in her words, \u201cto tell people that they have nothing to lose in trusting God with all their lives.\u201d<\/p>\n

Have we surrendered like that? Are we really OK if our life goals and dreams don\u2019t happen on our timeline \u2013 or never happen at all?<\/p>\n

Into the great unknown<\/h4>\n

In a lot of ways, I don\u2019t know where I\u2019m going. But Jesus does. I\u2019m learning that it\u2019s less about knowing where I want to go and getting there than it is about growing closer to Jesus and following Him little by little, step by step.<\/p>\n

We probably won\u2019t have as exotic an experience as Pamela did. Then again, we might. But her story of trusting God with her life reminds us that He is guiding our steps, even when we feel like we\u2019re going nowhere.<\/p>\n

And who knows where He will take us?<\/p>\n

Copyright 2020 Lauren Dunn. All rights reserved.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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