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Don\u2019t be fake while dating, plus Kris Swiatocho\u2019s testimony as a single adult, and should a guy ask a girl out even after he\u2019s been friendzoned?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Featured musical artist: <\/span>Jeremy Rosado<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Roundtable: Dating as the Real You<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s great to date someone who\u2019s comfortable in their own skin. So why do so many of us try to impress a date by acting like someone else? Whether we fake interest in their hobbies or we exaggerate (lie) about our accomplishments, we think becoming a version of someone they might like is better than being just plain old us. But no one wants to date a poser, so our panel delves into a spirited discussion on the topic and gives encouragement to be real, whatever the cost.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Leave Us a Voicemail<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Culture: Lessons From a Lifelong Single (Part 1)<\/b><\/p>\n

Kris Swiatocho had a rough start as a young adult. She admits she wasn\u2019t walking with the Lord, so after a season of partying and poor relationship choices, Kris saw the chance to join a Christian community \u2014 and took it. After witnessing what churches do well and not so well in ministering to the unmarried, she started The Singles Network Ministries. Today she speaks to singles around the world about friendship, dating, finding community, and following Jesus \u2014 whatever your relationship status.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Visit Kris\u2019s Website<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Inbox: After She\u2019s Friendzoned You\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

A girl at church has already friendzoned him. Should he still try to ask her out, or just let it be? Counselor Patrick Hill weighs in.<\/span><\/p>\n

Link to Counseling Services\u00a0<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Find us on YouTube\u00a0<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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