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The value of thoughtfulness, plus Dr. Gary Chapman on boundaries between young adults and their parents, and Lisa shares tips for going out alone.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Featured musical artist: <\/span>Love and the Outcome<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Roundtable: You\u2019re So Thoughtful!<\/b><\/p>\n

An encouraging text message, a quick hug, or help with a difficult task. Some people are just <\/span>thoughtful<\/span><\/i>. We brought some of the most sincerely kind people we know into the studio for a conversation on how to show thoughtfulness to others. From handwritten notes to a listening ear to a helping hand, there are many ways to show others you care. If you\u2019re someone on the giving or receiving end of thoughtfulness, you know what a difference it makes. Listen in for practical ways to strengthen your thoughtfulness muscle.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Send Us Your Show Ideas<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

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Watch This Segment on YouTube<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Culture: Boundaries With Mom and Dad<\/b><\/p>\n

One of the most challenging transitions of young adulthood is leaving home and redefining the relationship with your parents. In some cases the transition is a smooth one \u2014 others, not so much. What do your parents need from you as you stake your independence, and what does it look like to honor them while also forging healthy boundaries? Relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman shares from personal and professional experience how to have honest conversations with your parents to ensure the best relational outcomes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Learn About Dr. Chapman & The Love Languages\u00a0<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Inbox: Hanging Out Alone<\/b><\/p>\n

You want to do things solo, but is that weird? And is there a better-than-average way to go about getting your alone time? Lisa Anderson weighs in.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Find us on YouTube\u00a0<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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